Umbilical Required!
The Burden to NEED to be NEEDED beyond NEEDED Do you know or have you ever been generous? Do you like being needed? Does being needed sometimes become your own personal penance ? Some of us need to be needed beyond or moreso to the point of not being able to also look out for ones own well-being...needing til it hurts. What do you do when your generosity and giving really only perpetuate someone elses helpless complaining dependence on your dependence to be needed? [I know that long string makes sense to the right brains] Sometimes being a friend or family requires you to make some tough decisions. Every baby must be weened; they must transition from milk to meat/protein. Otherwise the streets would be littered with grown women.......oh, nevermind, you know where this is going. Point taken. Part of the issue is the person in need; the other is about the discernment of the other party to know the difference between need and used. Which individual is more broken; the needer needing to be...